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Toi & Moi is a modern matchmaking and dating coaching service that curates genuine, meaningful, and lasting connections between exceptional and vibrant single New Yorkers ready for real love.

Services We Offer

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Matchmaking

We offer personalized concierge matchmaking service designed for busy New York professionals seeking meaningful, lasting relationships. We take the time to get to know you—your values, lifestyle, and relationship goals—then hand-select introductions from a carefully vetted pool of serious, relationship-ready singles. Each match is curated with intention, supported by expert guidance, date feedback, and full discretion.

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Dating Coach & Image Consultant

We’ll help you navigate modern dating with clarity, confidence, and purpose. Through personalized sessions, we uncover patterns, build communication skills, and refine your approach to attract the kind of partner you truly want. We’ll offer practical strategies and mindset shifts that turn dating into a more empowered, fulfilling experience.

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Group Coaching

Our group dating coaching program is designed to give you the tools, support, and perspective to thrive in your love life—alongside a community of like-minded individuals. Through guided sessions, real-time feedback, and shared experiences, you’ll build confidence, uncover patterns, and learn proven strategies for meaningful connection. It’s a safe, inspiring place to grow together, shift your dating mindset, and move toward the relationship you truly want with clarity and courage.

Not Ready to Commit?

Join the Toi & Moi private matchmaking database to be considered for introductions with our high-caliber, relationship-ready clients. It’s completely free to be included. Apply now to be considered—we’re always searching for remarkable individuals to introduce to our clients.

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Not sure which service is right for you? Let us know if you want to book a 20-minute discovery call to see how Toi & Moi’s personalized matchmaking or coaching services can support your journey to love.

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