Toi & Moi is a modern matchmaking and dating coaching service that curates genuine, meaningful, and lasting connections for exceptional, vibrant single New Yorkers. Our matchmaking expertise pairs you with like-minded individuals, and our personalized dating coaching helps you navigate dating with confidence, self-awareness, and the tools to build a fulfilling, lasting relationship.
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Services We Offer
Matchmaking
We offer personalized concierge matchmaking service designed for busy New York professionals seeking meaningful, lasting relationships. We take the time to get to know you—your values, lifestyle, and relationship goals—then hand-select introductions from a carefully vetted pool of serious, relationship-ready singles. Each match is curated with intention, supported by expert guidance, date feedback, and full discretion.
Dating Coaching
We’ll help you navigate modern dating with clarity, confidence, and purpose. Through personalized sessions, we uncover patterns, build communication skills, and refine your approach to attract the kind of partner you truly want. We’ll offer practical strategies and mindset shifts that turn dating into a more empowered, fulfilling experience.
Infield Dating Coaching
We guide you through real-life outings and help you engage with potential partners in a natural, authentic way. We provide real-time support to ensure you’re confidently building connections that go beyond the surface, with the goal of meeting someone truly special. Let us help you foster relationships that feel effortless and genuine.
Relationship Support
We offer compassionate, professional relationship support services for individuals and couples who want to improve their communication, rebuild trust, and create deeper emotional connection. Whether you're navigating conflict, feeling distant from your partner, or dealing with patterns that keep showing up, we’re here to help you work through it—with care and clarity.
Our approach is warm, personalized, and grounded in real-life tools that strengthen your relationship from the inside out. We focus on emotional awareness, healthy boundaries, and conscious communication—so you can stop repeating the same cycles and start feeling more connected.
Services Include:
One-on-one relationship coaching
Couples support sessions
Communication and conflict resolution tools
A La Carte Services
Our flexible à la carte offerings are perfect for individuals who are serious about finding the right partner—but want options that fit their current stage in the journey. Whether you’re just starting to explore matchmaking or looking for targeted support, you can choose the services that make the most sense for you—no package or long-term commitment required. Inquire today and we’ll tailor a custom option to fit your goals.
Workshops and Events
Our workshops and events are designed to give you the tools, support, and perspective to thrive in your love life—alongside a community of like-minded individuals. Through guided sessions, real-time feedback, and shared experiences, you’ll build confidence, uncover patterns, and learn proven strategies for meaningful connection. It’s a safe, inspiring place to grow together, shift your dating mindset, and move toward the relationship you truly want with clarity and courage. From in-person AMAs to infield group coaching to elegant social gatherings, each event is thoughtfully crafted to create a warm, welcoming atmosphere where sparks can naturally fly.
Whether you’re looking to meet someone special or simply enjoy an evening surrounded by inspiring company, Toi & Moi events are your gateway to meaningful connections that go beyond the ordinary.
“Sophie offers a truly unique and refreshing approach to dating strategy. Instead of focusing on helping you find a partner who simply fits your preferences, she guides you inward--with questions that prompt deep self-reflection. Through our session, I came to understand not only what my core values truly are, but also gained clarity on my personal strengths and vulnerabilities.
Sophie's philosophy is powerful: it's not just about what you're seeking in a partner--it's about who you are as a partner. The qualities you embody, the values you live by, and the energy you project are what ultimately shape the connections you attract.
She has a clear vision of what a healthy, fulfilling relationship looks like--one where two people are committed to growing together. And every piece of advice she offers is grounded in that principle. Her message is clear and inspiring: if you're genuinely ready for a meaningful relationship, begin by becoming the best version of yourself. From there, the right connection will follow--naturally and authentically.” - Petro, Yelp Reviewer
What Our Clients Have to Say
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Let Us Get to Know You
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